Comments you make in the workplace can have a bigger impact than you realize. The words you choose can either build positive relationships with your coworkers or cause misunderstandings and hurt feelings. It’s important to be aware of the phrases you use to avoid unintentionally creating tension in the office.
For instance, starting your statements with “no offense” can often have the opposite effect. It may come across as offensive rather than considerate. Using patronizing language or backhanded compliments can also alienate your colleagues. Making others feel belittled or misunderstood can harm team dynamics and productivity.
If someone points out that your language is problematic, take responsibility for it. Apologize sincerely and commit to improving your communication style. Dismissing their concerns or claiming they are overreacting only worsens the situation. Your focus should be on understanding how your words were perceived and showing empathy towards your coworkers.